The experience of not being able to have children when you wanted them will always be life altering. And it has the capacity to inflict a level of grief that is, among other things, transformative.
The experience of wanting children and not being able to have them does not always have to be so inhumane, however.
What do we do when evolution is so clearly needed? When we are driven by the common thread of leaving this experience more truthful and less pulverizing than we found it? One doesn’t need to have their own children to have a vested interest in improving things for the next generation, that’s for sure.
We start talking. (more…)